曾经，我也曾有过一段时间觉得自己的命不好。
家里人也说我命不好，因为我经历了一些挫折和困境。
但后来我发现，生命是我们自己创造的，真正不好的是自己的心态。
我的家庭并不富裕，但我一直都努力学习，凭借自己的努力考进了一个好大学。
但在大学里，我碰到了很多问题，最严重的是遭受了感情上的打击。
当时我觉得自己已经失去一切。
我想，这就是我命中注定的吗？ 我的家人也觉得我很倒霉。
我父母曾多次劝我回家，说我不适合在大城市里生活，更不适合继续读大学。
他们认为我应该回家接手家里的生意，而不是在大学里自寻烦恼。
但我拒绝了他们的建议。
我选择了继续在学校里学习，而不是被打击击垮。
我虽然经历了一段时间的失落和痛苦，但我觉得自己还有很多事情需要做。
我决定不让自己沉溺于失去和失败中。
我的命并不是由上天注定的。
我相信我们都能创造自己的命运。
我开始重审自己的生活，寻找新的机会和方向。
当我改变心态，把注意力放在未来而不是过去时，我的生命开始改变。
I remember a time when I too believed that I had a bad life. My family said I had bad luck because I experienced setbacks and struggles. However, I later realized that our lives are what we make of them, and that the only thing that can be bad is our attitude. Growing up, we were never wealthy. However, I worked hard in school, and was able to attend a good university on my own merit. However, I faced a lot of challenges in college, and the most significant one was a failed relationship. At that time, I felt like I had lost everything. I thought, is this what my life is meant to be? My family also thought I was unlucky. My parents often advised me to come back home, saying I was not cut out for city life, let alone university. They believed I should come back and take over the family business instead of causing myself undue stress. But I refused their advice. I decided to stick to my studies rather than being beaten by my problems. Although I lost my confidence for a while, I realized I had so much left to accomplish. I refused to drown in my failures. My life was not predetermined by fate. I believed that we could all create our own destiny. I began to re-evaluate my life and seek out new opportunities and directions. When I changed my attitude and focused on the future instead of the past, my life began to change.